it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
very very important. (TW SEXUAL ABUSE) i’ve had an experience where i started crying while someone was fucking me and until i was like I NEED YOU TO TAKE YOUR DICK OUT OF ME, they just kind of laid there…and then when i stopped crying they were like… “ok, so can we finish?” and i felt pressured and was just said “sure”